Dear Son:
We have become another year older together--you, happy about it because you got your license; me, not so much. But, I guess I'd rather be 53 and alive than 40 and dead. My hopes and dreams for you in the coming years are not all that different from any parent, I guess, except you are my only child, so I don't get to dream as much as most other parents. The past 16 3/4 years have flown by. You will be in college soon. I pray you keep your eye on this goal for the next couple years. Be kind and respectful to teachers. They have such a difficult job these days. When you meet one in a store in 15 years, you want them to remember you with fond memories. Study for a career you will enjoy that will help support a family and don't let anything stop you. Remember,though, lots of CEOs started in the mailroom.
Get exercise, fresh air and sunshine every day. You have to for a healthy life. Life expectancy is over 70 now! You need some sunshine every day so your body will use vitamin D correctly. Your body is currently combating all kinds of chemicals on a daily basis that you can deal with now! Eat stuff that comes out of the ground, not a box.
Friends are great but their choices and behavior may not be. Always follow your spirit and your heart. You know what is right and wrong. Your friends probably will not be at your side if you get lung cancer and are hooked up to machines coughing your life away, but your family will. Live now for them.
Save a portion of every paycheck you get. Through the magic of compound interest, if you invest only $268 a month starting at age 25, you will have saved ONE MILLION DOLLARS by age 65. It will be painless. If you wait until 55, you will need to save over $5000 a month which will be quite painful!
Feed your mind and your spirit starting now. Ingest the New Testament. So many great lessons and advice. When you deal with disappointments in later life, you will already have a sturdy foundation and not so far to fall.
No mention of computer games, videos, TV, etc. ?? Nope, TV only advertises stuff you think you need. You have enough stuff. If you have money burning a hole in your pocket, donate it. A very good habit to get into. Start now.
Games are just empty calories. You don't need them to grow. If you must partake, remember--MODERATION. Don't get addicted, it will NOT lead to a happy marriage.
There is so much more I wish for you. The next several years will be rough but you will get through them. Bad feelings do not last forever and there are so many good feelings for you to look forward to. I will always be here for you.
Love, Mom